How to do a ruined orgasm properly

Ruined orgasms have thousands of benefits for the woman in the Femdom relationship and I am really really excited to cover this topic here 🙂

First what is a ‘ruined orgasm’ and how to do it 100% right? The correct way for me to describe it is to bring the man extremely close to an orgasm, just half a stroke until orgasm, just a gentle whispering or light breeze before the climax…and then stop ALL stimulation all of a sudden. If done right after several veeeery close attempts to bring him extremely close to orgasm and stopping, his body will eventually give up and go over the point of no return, but without any satisfaction. If done carefully the right way I described it, he will be extremely frustrated, his semen will steadily flow instead of erupt, and in the peak of the moment he might even have tears in his eyes out of desperation.

Now that you know how an orgasm is properly ruined, let us cover the fun and most important part -> let us talk about the most important benefits for women:

• After a full orgasm the man grows distant and he might return to his bad habits. However after a ruined orgasm the man is still very horny, he still have hopes for a full orgasm, and more importantly his energy that can be channeled into serving women is even stronger!
• After a ruined orgasm he is immediately ready for another round of sexual activities -> whether it is via penetration, or oral sex to his partner. His desires are still there as if he did not have an orgasm at all.
• He can have many ruined orgasms in a row if this is what the woman desires at the moment. I never allow my male sub to have more than one ruined orgasm at a time and immediately lock him back into chastity, but it is an interesting possibility if this is what the woman’s heart desires.
• The man is still horny after a ruined orgasm and the woman can take advantage of it in many ways. For example she can force the man to eat all of his cum and show him who is the boss in the relationship. After weeks in chastity the amount of cum will be huge and it will be extremely humiliating and disgusting to eat all of it, but hey -> training a male sub is not easy, and this is proven to increase his obedience.
• Imagine after months of chastity the man finally hopes for the orgasm that he is dreaming about every single second, and instead of getting the ultimate pleasure he starts crying in desperation -> first because he did not get any pleasure, and second because he is going back into chastity for unknown period. This might sound cruel, and well – it is :), but this is how a male sub is slowly broken and trained to always put the pleasure of his woman above his own.
• Men’s performance in everyday actions such as house cleaning, doing chores, giving multiple orgasms to his partner will not be affected and he will continue to do this with the same passion as before his ruined fun.

Even men can find some benefits when their orgasms are ruined such as:

• Some small relief from the long build up in chastity. While it is not a pleasurable relief, every single male sub will choose ruined orgasm vs. no orgasm at all if he is being locked in chastity for a few weeks.
• He will find an extremely strong motivation to be much better in serving his partner every single day so that the next time he is let out of chastity, she might be so pleased with him that she might allow him a full orgasm. Or at least not make him eat all of his cum after the next ruined one (devil)

As a conclusion while women can have ground shattering multiple orgasms each day, a full orgasm for a man is a very rare treat and he must earn it. But as we saw Everyone can find benefits in ruined orgasms so I encourage more women to ruin the orgasms of their male subs much more often. If a man is single he can still practice ruining his own orgasms so that he is prepared when he finds the right partner to dominate him.

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Kisses,
Goddess BlueBalls 🙂